Do you want a healthy relationship or a perfect one?
Delusions around love are common and one of the most common ones is that a healthy relationship is perfect and all sunshine and rainbows.
In romantic relationships people expect sunshine and rainbows but forget that the sun shines after the darkest hour of the night and rainbows only come after storms.
A relationship with a predominant energy of ease and flow means those involved chose to weather the storm and were graced with the rainbow, a reminder that even when hope seems lost, it will always be found and a promise that you will be victorious even in the times when you feel most defeated.
They faced what most avoid and because of it are rewarded with an experience people only dream of, a beautiful relationship filled with sunshine and rainbows.
Healthy relationships ARE NOT perfect. Conflict is unavoidable because it's necessary for learning and evolution, but you shouldn't be afraid and the focus should be on preparing for the storm rather than complete avoidance so that you can see the sunshine and rainbow.
What is healthy is what is real and what is real is what occurs naturally, storms are part of nature, and if you pay attention, you'll notice the sun shines even more brightly after storms.
You can experience sunshine and rainbows but only if you choose to stick around.
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